Colander
The idea is to be leaky in the right places. To collect selectively, and let the rest pass through. Like a specialized colander.
Because some things nourish us. They’re worth retaining. Recalling. Holding tenderly.
And other things are not even worth our consideration, let alone keeping.
In these days, when our eyes and ears are served far more than they can hold, an intentional passthrough channel is a healthy filter.