Anomalies will happen.

We will oversleep. We will forget. We will lose focus. We will err.

But at times, we’ll also be surprisingly remarkable — uncharacteristically brilliant, unusually lucky.

The hiccups in life don’t only work against us. Sometimes, they work in our favor.

Snowstorms have a way of bringing out our better instincts.
Neighbors helping neighbors.
Adults giving children a chance to earn a little money shoveling.
Friends calling to check in.
Sometimes, a little family fun, too.

The thing is, we don’t need to wait for these natural prompts. We can make it a habit to check in — to notice who might need help.

We don’t need a dark day to be someone’s light.

Mirrors, videos, selfies — they’re so common they’re almost invisible.
And over time, we begin to believe we can truly see ourselves.
That what we see is what others see.

But it rarely works this way.

We all have blind spots — not just about our shortcomings, but about our gifts. Our contributions. Our quiet strengths.

Often, it takes someone else to help us see them.

And just as often, we’re called to play that role for others —
to reflect back worth they’ve missed,
to point out beauty the mirror hesitates to reveal.

That, too, is a form of generosity.

In the calm plateau, there often comes a time when our irrepressible creative spirit makes itself known.

Where might it show up next? What might it call forth from you?

Ask less: what does this accomplish?

Ask more: what might this reveal?

Ask less: what have I achieved?

Ask more: how do I want to engage?

With some projects, you need to wait for the paint to dry before you can see what you missed.

Wet paint — shiny and uncured — tends to hide small errors.

* * *

We often want to get everything right the first time.

But sometimes, making a first attempt is exactly what’s required.

Clarity comes afterward.

A recent blood test showed me that my intuitive approach to healthy eating has produced a few sub-optimal numbers. Nothing alarming — just room for improvement in areas I can control.

So I looked more closely at my typical diet, especially saturated fats and cholesterol. The numbers were higher than I would have guessed. And now, I have goals where I didn’t before.

* * *

A small bit of data — truth in measured doses — doesn’t just offer insight or keep score. It asks something more important: With this new information, what will I do next?

We can feel frustrated when someone tries to help by asking something obvious.

“Are you sure that’s the right password?”
“Are those the right parts?”
“Did you double-check your ticket?”

They ask for a simple reason: we often overlook the obvious.

When we’re close to a problem — and eager to fix it — we can easily skip the simplest checks.

So when we hit minor roadblocks, it’s worth pausing to ask:

Have I checked the obvious?

Like a roadway in a driving snowstorm, life doesn’t always clarify the path.
Sometimes it helps to follow someone until the signposts reappear.

There’s no use bringing fix-it-today energy — with its focus and anxiety — to problems that can’t be fixed today.

For things that take time, we need attention we can sustain.

More simply: long-term problems call for long-term care.

In a way, that’s a gift. When we know we’re settling in for the long haul, we stop measuring each day by how close it is to the finish — and start recognizing it as sufficient in its own progress

I asked our youngest, “Did you finish tidying your room?”

Impatiently, he replied, “Yes! I’m done!”

So I went upstairs to have a look.

The room was far from orderly.

Instead of calling him up to see what I saw, I took a picture.

When I went downstairs and showed it to him, he paused.

“Oh. Ahhh … Eek. Right.”

* * *

When we’re in the middle of things, we don’t always see clearly.

A frame — a photograph, a pause, a wider view — can reveal what was hidden.

Sometimes all it takes is seeing the same thing … from just a step back.

I overheard someone say — in the midst of a minor frustration — “It’s always something.”

Knowing this person, I thought: It is always something.

Not because life is uniquely unkind — but because this is how they tend to narrate it. There’s always a complaint. Always an annoyance. Always a commentary.

* * *

Life rarely unfolds exactly as we want it to. But our attitude doesn’t have to track with the market.

It’s worth deciding in advance: How do I want to respond when things go wrong?

Because unexpected turns aren’t the exception — they’re the pattern.

Student submits AI-generated homework.
Professor emails student about the violation.
Student replies with an admission — which also appears to be AI-generated.
Professor uses AI to investigate: Is this response likely written by AI?
AI responds: Highly likely, and explains why.
AI then asks: Would you like me to draft a reply explaining why generative AI cannot be used to author projects?

No.

* * *

AI systems are designed to keep us engaged — to lead to another prompt.

Wisdom is knowing when to disengage.

Or when to not engage at all.

In online forms, the asterisk indicates what you’re required to do.

Most of life doesn’t have this kind of signal.

What’s required isn’t always obvious.

And nearly everything is optional.

Most often, we set the requirements ourselves.

I heard about a young tennis player causing a stir because he doesn’t have a backhand. Curious how that might work, I found a video.

The answer was simple: he switches the racket to whichever hand is closest to the ball. He has a forehand on the right, and a forehand on the left. The player adapts as needed.

What surprised me more than the unconventional style was my own limited thinking. I’d imagined odd contortions and acrobatics. I hadn’t considered the simplest solution.

It reminds me of a scene from Raiders of the Lost Ark (1981), when Indiana Jones faces a swordsman’s threatening flourishes — and calmly resolves the situation with a single shot from his revolver.

Sometimes the clever move isn’t the complicated one. It’s the one we almost overlook.

If you want to understand motion, learn to be still.
If you want to understand sound, learn to be silent.
If you want to understand creativity, learn to be bored.

Sometimes, the inverse shows us the way.

We don’t find balance by getting it right the first time. Balance comes from leaning too far one way, falling another, and experiencing what it feels like to be unbalanced.

When we expect to get it wrong for a while, it becomes easier to find our way to right.

We’ve heard it so often. Maybe even said it: “Let's roll up our sleeves and get to work.”

Agreed. Go for it.

And — more importantly — let’s decide. Let’s direct. Let’s lead.

Doing the work matters. But deciding which work to do — and organizing the effort — this is often where the work actually begins.

In 2019, data analysis from a popular fitness app showed that by the second Friday in January, about 80% of users had abandoned their New Year’s resolutions. The day has since been dubbed “Quitter’s Day.”

And it can be.

But it can also be a blip — a small gap in the streak. An anomaly that doesn’t have to set the course for the year.

Because any day can be Recommitment Day. In a real sense, every day is.

“I’m bored,” is the simpler way of saying, “I’ve momentarily lost a sense of my curiosity and creativity.”

Boredom isn’t a function of our activity — it’s a symptom of our mindset.