Soccer lessons

My sons improbably lodged a soccer ball in the top-most branches of a tall maple tree. I offered to help.

We spent nearly an hour trying various (and often ridiculous) ways to dislodge it.

We were unsuccessful, but we had a lot of fun trying.

Eventually, nature will solve the problem. A strong wind or the changing seasons — something will dislodge it. (Or we’ll go at it again with renewed vigor.)

Our experience turned into a great example of finding a new game when the planned game doesn’t work out. Of having a good time without really “winning”.

For me, it was a simple reminder that when I’m working on my kids’ behalf, it rarely feels like work at all.